Monday, February 28, 2011

The Help - Kathryn Stockett





Descriptions written on the back of the book:

" Enter a vanished world: Jackson, Mississippi, 1962. Where black maids raised white children, but aren't trusted not to steal the silver...

There's Aibileen, raising her seventeenth white child and nursing the hurt caused by her own son's tragic death; Minny, whoose cooking is nearly as sassy as her tongue; and white Miss Skeeter, home from college, who wants to know why her beloved maid has disappeared.

Skeeter, Aibileen and Minny. No one would believe they'd be friends; fewer still would tolerate it. But as each roman finds the courage to cross boundaries, they come to depend and rely upon one another. Each is in search of a truth. And together they have an extraordinary story to tell...."

It seems like society is still living in it's past. The lines though no longer clear, has become invisible yet present in our daily lives, regardless of how times have changed, years have passed and how we would like to believe that we have moved on.

The help still get abused by their employers and some family still practice segregations during mealtimes. How have we change? Are our attitide & treatment to our help really different from 1962, Mississippi? The wages we pay in comparison to 40 years ago doesn't seems much different. It's all in relative of course. USD 200 40 years ago and SGD 450 present day 2011. Doing the math, they don't seem to earn much. With conversion to their country currencies, yes, it adds up. However, ideally, we are back at square one.

I don't wish for this post to be political but the fact that this division is present is staring back at me countless times over the years. Coloured and race division is a sensitive issue in many countries. We don't speak of it and we pretend that it's not present but when you stop and pay attention, it hits you hard.

Help is by and large of a different colour from the employer. Look at the help in our country, at service industries, at home. Observed the reversal in a foreign countries where the majority are white. You get my drift.

Black, yellow, brown. Colours of the world and of the help.

It's an exceptional book. Recommended by many book blogs. It made me cry and it made me think. Good books does that.


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Sunday, February 27, 2011

Bewitched by Vampires

Yesterday was spent in the company of vampires. We watch "The Vampire Diaries" & Eclipse.




I prefer the actors and actresses of Vamp diaries more than the Twlight saga. I didn't really thought much of it when Twlight was first shown, but after watching 2 diff shows back to back, I feel that somehow Rob Pattinson (Edward) fails to charm me as much as he did in Twlight. And Kristen Stewart (Bella) irritates me.




I need to google their actual names because they are not so popular in the media but gosh, the bad boy Damon is so cute in the devil may care ways and Stefan is so broodingly in thoughts. Well, Eleanor is the usual human amongst vampire and other lurking creatures (witches, werewolves) that are slowly revealed as the season moves on. She of course being a human needs lots of protections but she is not irritating and much prettier.




I'm going to continue watching Vamp D and be charmed by vampires. Also looking forward to the next instalment of Twlight- Breaking Dawn.

I also wrote something similar on ODL blog.

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Friday, February 25, 2011

Cat lessons










1. Wake up each morning with a song I'm your heart. Sing out when you first see someone you know.

2. Eliminate the rats in your life. You will feel less stressed.

3. Take time out of your day to take time out of your day.

4. Sleep well and rest often. A good nature depends on good sleep.

"Lessons from Stanley the Cat" - Jennifer Freed

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